About

I sat twelve inches from thousands of conversations.

Most coaches learned people from books. I learned them in a chair, two hours at a time, closer than anyone else gets to sit.

The Chair

It started with brows. It never stayed there.

I'm a permanent makeup artist by trade. The work puts you inches from someone's face for hours, and something happens at that distance: people tell you the truth. Not the dinner-party version. The real one.

Appointment after appointment, year after year, women told me about their marriages, their businesses, the moves they were scared to make, the versions of themselves they'd quietly given up on. I didn't go looking for those conversations. The chair kept bringing them to me.

The Business

Then I built Fine Strokes.

No investors, no safety net. An empty chair in Birmingham, Michigan, a set of hands, and a decade of figuring it out as I went. Today Fine Strokes is a real studio with a real team, and I train other artists there. You can look it up.

Building it taught me the things no course teaches. What it's like when the whole machine runs on your hands. What hiring feels like when trust doesn't come easy. What it costs to be the person everyone relies on, and what it takes to hit a wall you built yourself and find a way around it.

So when a founder sits across from me and says "everyone thinks I've made it, and I'm treading water," I don't nod because I read about it. I nod because I've done that exact math at 2am.

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The Road

Travel rewrote my definition of success.

I've spent years traveling the world. Not to sightsee, but to actually go find out how other people do "life": warm places where family sits at the center of everything, fast cities where everyone's optimized and no one's happy, quiet corners where people have almost nothing and somehow aren't missing a thing.

When you've sat at that many different tables, you stop assuming your version of "made it" is the only one that counts. That's the perspective I bring into the room: I'm not measuring your life against my one idea of what it should look like. I've seen too many versions of good for that.

The Work Now

Why Ducks in a Row exists.

Ducks in a Row is my private 1:1 coaching for ambitious businesswomen and solopreneurs. No portal, no workbook, no group program. One real conversation a week, until you're moving again.

What I believe is simple. Real change starts with a real conversation, not more content. Honesty beats comfort. And if I'm not the right person to help you, I'll say so and point you somewhere better. I'd rather turn you down than waste your year.

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